So, you got attracted to a guy a lot and you started dating that guy who makes you feel dizzy all the time. Everything happened so fast that you did not even see it coming, right? After spending some time thinking about your relationship with him, you realize that some things are wrong with this relationship. You cannot define anything as a problem, but you know things should not be like this, right? He never calls you to go out on a date. You cannot meet him as much as you want because he never has enough time for you. You realize that he is not into you as much as you are into him. You cannot see anything proving that you are dating him. Well, you are right about it. Something fishy must be going on there. Now, you want to be sure if he is playing with you or not, but you cannot ask him. Well, you are in the right place. Here are the most common ways to tell that your date is a player.
1. He Gets Caught Lying
For someone who lies too much, it is inevitable to get caught red-handed. If your date lies, you will surely catch him lying several times. Yes, everyone can sometimes lie to avoid problems. However, he has no reason to lie to you unless he is not hiding anything from you. He might lie to you about his plans for the night. He might lie to you about who he was with when he was not with you. Even if he does not lie to you, you might catch him lying other people on the phone when you are with him. What you should do is to be sure that his lies are only little lies that will not hurt anybody.
2. He Avoids Commitment
No matter how pleased and happy he seems when he is with you, he might be seeing some other girls too. If he is playing with you, he will be reluctant to commit anything with you. He will delay ''that talk'' as much as he can saying it is not the right time and he needs more time to get to know you. Most probably, he will not introduce you to his friends or his family. Even if he does, he will not introduce you as his girlfriend. A player mentions himself as single all the time. He can even mention it without any hesitation while you think you are dating him. If he is a player, he cannot commit anything with you because he will not be able to decide who to choose among all the girls.
3. You Know More About Him
When you are attracted to someone or start to like someone, you get curious about them a lot. You try to learn everything about them. Naturally, you will get curious about that guy and ask him questions all the time to get to know him better. Probably, he will answer some of your questions but not all of them. Your questions might even bore him, and he might want you to stop asking them. No matter how hard you try to connect with him, he will never let you do it. He will never share the details of his life with you. Besides, he will never get curious enough to get to know you either. He will barely ask you questions. You will surely feel that he is not so interested in you or your life. I suggest you not to waste your time on someone who does not deserve you.
4. He Flirts With Everyone
Flirting is not an exact sign showing that he is a player as long as he is honest about his relationship status. If he is flirtatious, it might be his characteristic that he cannot help. However, if his eyes are always wandering around, and he dares to go a step further than only flirting with other girls, it means that he is not a keeper. He can flirt with anyone at any time. He might even flirt with your friends that you introduce him to.
5. He Has Excuses
When you call him to meet up, his dad might be sick. When you wait for him to answer your text, he might be busy with something so important that it can take a few days for him to answer. He will have some excuses to cancel your plans at last moment. If you insist on discussing your relationship with him, he will bring up something as it is stopping him from getting serious with you. Moreover, you keep waiting for him to be available to meet or talk for days or weeks. Don't forget that he will never be available for that talk.Stop waiting for him, because no time will be the right time for him, ever.
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