So, you have been using dating apps to meet new people. And you have found some cute singles or even got matches with them. You got curious about them and wanted to start chatting with them immediately. What did you do next? Of course, you sent them a message introducing yourself. After your message, you waited to get a response from them for a day, but you never got it. Then, you waited a couple of days more. Still no response. Now, you don't know what to do or what to think about them. Well, don't you worry or get upset, because this is quite normal when dating online. It happens to everyone while staying as a huge mystery. It might have some reasons that make these singles not respond you. You can get an idea why your match is not responding you by reading the rest of the blog post. It will help you realize what you did wrong, or what is wrong with your match.
1. You Got A Wrong Pick-up Line Words can mean more than you intend. The first impression is so important that people can understand a lot of things about you only by your one word. Especially when you are chatting with someone, your chose of words become the most important because they are the only things reveal you. If you picked up a wrong line to start the chat, that might be the reason why you cannot get a response. Your pick-up line might be too monotonous or too hard to answer with anything. Be careful picking up a line because it may be either a great start or a fast end of your chat. Don't ask questions like ''What's up?'' or ''What you are doing?''. These questions of someone you do not know are hard to respond because they cannot give details about their life that you do not even have a clue. You should introduce yourself first before asking that kind of questions.
2. You Are Not Their Type Not all of the dating apps work through matches. If you some other apps and send a message to someone, the first reason that should come to mind is that you are not really their type. Even if you use other dating apps as well and you got a match with somebody, they might have regretted their choice right away. They even might have got a match with you accidentally. So, you should analyze your situation first and then start worrying about it if necessary. If you are not their type, then there is nothing to worry about it. You deserve someone who likes you so you should just keep looking for that person.
3. They Might Have Stopped Using The App It is a low possibility but still, it is a possibility. Your match might have lost her/his hope to meet someone special and have just stopped using the app. At least, you do not get a response because your match does not see any of your messages. This not a bad sign for you, not at all. You can wait for sometime for your match to come back, but do not hope too much. If it is gone, it is gone. You should move on.
4. They Got Married Not all people believe it at first, but quite a lot of people get married after meeting on an online dating app. As Waplog, we helped many couples to meet around the world, and they got married eventually. Those singles that you texted may not be single anymore. They could have got into a relationship with someone, or they might have got married. This can be the reason why they are not responding your texts because they might be busy with planning their wedding. You should be happy for them in that case.
5. They Are Busy Everyone has their own things to do, of course. However, some people work too much and have much more things on their schedule than others. So, your match might be a workaholic and work too much like nonstop. I know this sounds like a lie or a made-up excuse, but trust me there are many people like this. To be sure if your match works too much or not, you have to wait for sometime. You should wait at least for a week to get a response. After that one week, you can start thinking about other options above.
6. They Do Not Have Anything To Say If you think you said something that can be misunderstood easily or something rude, that might be the reason why your match is not responding. People do not respond rude texts. They ignore them most of the time because there is no way to answer a rude text. The other possibility might be that you do not say anything interesting so your match cannot give you an answer, even if she/he wants to. As I have already told you, you should be careful about what you say.
7. They Logged Out Your match might have logged out of the app after using it the last time accidentally or on purpose. That might be the reason why your match is not responding because she/he do not see any of your messages. Now that she/he has logged out, she/he cannot get notifications of your message either. The only thing you can do in this situation is to hope for your match to log in again. Don't worry your match will respond your message as soon as she/he sees it. Just wait for that response that might start a new relationship patiently.
Well, you can consider any of these about your situation. I just want to warn you not to get angry and make a fast and wrong move because it can be bad for both of you. If you want to learn more about online dating and get some tips about online dating, keep reading our blog posts. Hope you liked this week's posts. Have a great week!
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