Valentine's Day was just yesterday, and some of us went through a tough period being single and alone while some of us had an incredible time with bae getting great gifts. Thank God, it is February, 15 now and everyone went back to their regular schedule, not putting any heart-shaped objects everywhere. Congrats to the ones in a relationship who spent the day with their bae and had a romantic V-Day. Sorry for the ones not in a relationship who spent the whole period feeling lonely and depressed. Of course, Of course, it is not a big deal to be single on Valentine's Day because it is only a single day. However, it gives you the feeling of loneliness when it is emphasized that much. You suddenly realize how lonely you are and how bad being single feels like seeing lovebirds everywhere. Sometimes, you realize it and hate it too much not only on Valentine's Day but also on a regular damn day. And you can never know when you will have to face it, and the feeling of it. So, there are some moments that make you hate being single. At that moments you want to skip your single life immediately and get into a relationship right away.
When you see your friends in a relationship, you hate being single. If your friends get into a relationship, you will see how it will affect you. You will not have many chances to see them like old days because they will be spending nearly all of their time together. Even if you see your friends as much as you want, probably you will have to see their bae all time as well. They will always talk about their bae naturally, but it bothers you because you have nothing to update your friends about relationships. So, you just try to change the subject and try not to think how lonely you are. Being single is the worst especially when you are a third wheel. There is no way to explain how being a third wheel feels like thoroughly, but you can imagine it. Especially when your best friend has a relationship, you just want to have a partner no matter who.
When you get a wedding invitation with +1, you get sad a lot thinking you have no one to take there. Most importantly, thinking there will be a couple and you will be celebrating their love and relationship while you have nothing to celebrate. You sometimes accept your punishment for being single and go there, or you cancel it telling them you are sick and spend your whole day in pajamas. And avoiding them does not make you feel better, either. You should try sleeping and shutting down your consciousness because it is the only way not to think about it.
When the date is February 14, (Every Year) you want to stab every heart-shaped object you see. Well, Valentine's Day is the worst day of the whole year for a single person, and no one can claim otherwise. Everything you see is red or heart-shaped that gives you the idea that everyone has a relationship except you. It is natural to hope for a partner on that day, do not feel bad about it because everything seems like people having a relationship are getting awarded for not being single. You will feel miserable anyway on that day, just try to avoid every kind of human contact and stay at home. You will feel miserable anyway on that day, just try to avoid every kind of human contact and stay at home abstaining from social media, of course.
When you have to cook, you might give up cooking immediately. You can just realize you feel bad about being single and lose your appetite. When you want to cook you need to make the measurements for one person, one person only. That's what makes you realize you are alone and will eat alone and you will get lost in your own silence while eating. Yeah, it is strange for a meal to make you go through a process like this, but it is true. That's why I never cook.
When you go on an awkward date, you question why you have to go through this to have a relationship. It shows you relationships are difficult and they are not easy to find. You might even lose all you hope for finding a partner. You just want to have someone not having to go through these awkward and painful process. It hurts to be single while you are an awesome person. Sometimes, it makes you think that you might be too good for everyone so you will die alone.
When you see a cute couple, you suddenly remember what is missing in your life. A partner. You think you could look as cute as they do. Seeing smiling couple makes you think that you will not be happy without a partner. You get jealous of them, normally. The happier they are, the sadder you get. You should just turn your head and keep walking until they disappear as your sorrow will.
When you get scared at night, you will probably regret not having a partner. When you hear a noise at night and get scared, you just feel you need someone to tell you that it is just a noise and there is nothing to worry about. Just stay strong and do not let these things let being single take you down. You will find that person who will tell you not to worry about eventually.
When someone asks your relationship status, it drives crazy, right? Another question follows it usually asking why you are single. Come on! How do you expect me to give you a reason? These questions only make you uncomfortable and make you want to have a partner. You were already feeling bad about being single, and these questions make you hate it instead.
When you have to reach the salt at the dinner table, you wish you could ask someone to pass the salt. It is so sad to eat alone anyway, but being aware of the fact and thinking about it is the worst. I wish you had someone that could pass the salt. Be hopeful, you will find someone to pass the salt sooner or later, or you will just get used to getting it yourself.
When you do not leave the house for days and try to find a human contact asap, you just want to have a partner whom you can chat even without leaving the house. People might want to stay away from the outside world and stay at home for some time. However, that does not mean that they want to spend their day without hearing their own voice. Having a partner definitely solves this problem and realizing it makes you feel a little worse if you do not have one.
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